‘Friends’ Star Matthew Perry Reveals Harrowing Addiction Journey

By Cara Murez 

HealthDay Reporter

THURSDAY, Oct. 20, 2022 (HealthDay News) – Just a number of years in the past, “Friends” actor Matthew Perry nearly died from opioid overuse that just about destroyed his colon and nearly killed him.

Now, he’s sober and desires to inform his story.

Perry has written a memoir, “Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing,” which will probably be revealed Nov. 1.

“I needed to share once I was protected from going into the darkish facet of the whole lot once more,” Perry instructed the journal PEOPLE. “I needed to wait till I used to be fairly safely sober — and away from the lively illness of alcoholism and habit — to put in writing all of it down. And the principle factor was, I used to be fairly sure that it will assist folks.”

Perry shares that he has gone to rehab 15 instances, however he doesn’t say how lengthy he’s been sober.

“It’s necessary, however for those who lose your sobriety, it doesn’t suggest you lose all that point and training,” he says. “Your sober date modifications, however that is all that modifications. You know the whole lot you knew earlier than, so long as you have been capable of struggle your manner again with out dying, you study loads.”

Perry talks about how his alcohol habit was simply starting when he was 24 and forged on the TV present “Friends.” Perry, now 53, performed Chandler Bing on the present.
 

“I might deal with it, type of. But by the point I used to be 34, I used to be actually entrenched in plenty of hassle,” he admits. “But there have been years that I used to be sober throughout that point. Season 9 was the 12 months that I used to be sober the entire manner by. And guess which season I acquired nominated for greatest actor? I used to be like, ‘That ought to inform me one thing.'”

Among his lows throughout the “Friends” years have been when he was taking 55 Vicodin a day and weighed solely 128 kilos.

“I did not know cease,” Perry says. “If the police came to visit to my home and stated, ‘If you drink tonight, we will take you to jail,’ I’d begin packing. I could not cease as a result of the illness and the habit is progressive. So it will get worse and worse as you get older.”

His forged mates have been conscious of his circumstances and patiently propped him up.

“It’s like penguins. Penguins, in nature, when one is sick, or when one could be very injured, the opposite penguins encompass it and prop it up. They stroll round it till that penguin can stroll by itself. That’s type of what the forged did for me.”
 

A number of years in the past, at age 49, Perry practically died due to his habit. His colon burst from opioid overuse, inflicting him to spend two weeks in a coma, 5 months hospitalized and to make use of a colostomy bag for 9 months.

“The doctors told my family that I had a 2% chance to live,” Perry told PEOPLE. “I was put on a thing called an ECMO machine, which does all the breathing for your heart and your lungs. And that’s called a Hail Mary. No one survives that.”

Perry said he’s now healthy and that scars on his stomach remind him of his journey to sobriety.

“I’m pretty healthy now,” Perry said, before joking, “I’ve got to not go to the gym much more, because I don’t want to only be able to play superheroes. But no, I’m a pretty healthy guy right now.”

Perry said his therapist suggested that when he thinks about taking Oxycontin, he think about the possibility of having a colostomy bag for the rest of his life.

“And a little window opened and I crawled through it and I no longer want Oxycontin anymore,” Perry stated.

Perry, the one survivor amongst 5 folks placed on an ECMO machine at his hospital the evening his prolonged keep started, is decided to assist others who wrestle with habit.

“I say within the guide that if I did die, it will shock folks, but it surely would not shock anyone. And that is a really scary factor to be residing with. So my hope is that individuals will relate to it, and know that this illness assaults all people. It would not matter for those who’re profitable or not profitable, the illness would not care,” Perry stated.

He has discovered “the whole lot begins with sobriety. Because if you do not have sobriety, you are going to lose the whole lot that you just put in entrance of it, so my sobriety is true up there,” he says. “I’m an especially grateful man. I’m grateful to be alive, that is for certain. And that provides me the likelihood to do something.”

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The U.S. Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration may also help folks scuffling with habit.

 

 

SOURCE: PEOPLE journal